Are You A Hyper Empathetic?

There are people around saying "I feel your pain....", "I wish I had died together with him"... And surprisingly they should have been thinking how enourmous heart they have and how loving people they are.. Isn't it a bit selfish manner? Like the people can not say "no" to another, the "people pleasers" also seem weak by the other ones.

The hyper empathy is also one of the interesting manners or feelings that may define our social interactions with the other people. As an example, women used to feel more attracted to the kind of men who does not care much of them, you know why? Who knows!! Maybe some scientists are now making some studies on those kind of people, but the real thing is that we ,as women, dislike the ones who are extra sensitive on anything, we are attracted to the red rose buyers, but we get married to the ones used to forget our birthday or anniversaries.

Normally, reading other people's feelings or feeling the same pain their friends already experiencing seems a wonderful sense, but sometimes when it exceeds, you try to interrupt the other's live, you get addicted to the people such as "helicopter parents" who always care too much for their children (this also seems normal to most of you) but do you know this can be dangerous when you can not get feedbacks from another and this hyper sensitive type of feeling may lead to mental disorders, drug addictions and so on...