The Superego And The Negative Sides

The superego is the sudden voice you are afraid when you break the vase on the table when you're a child.
It is you mother's, it's your father's voice... It is the authority creates our insecurities...
When you are not allowed to do something, your superego becomes active. It directs your mental behaviour. When something enjoyable calls you, it is the voice that says don't go, stay calm... It seems that this thing is not a part of a joy... Always claims the logical part of ourselves...
If we can overcome superego, you can:

*tell mummy we will not choose the medicine at university and will be a musician instead.

*fall in love with someone and do not think the rest...

*do not feel too much guilty about the broken vase.

*go out with the shiny mini red dress even if you are at your 70's.

Everybody needs approval from around and directs his feelings accordingly. But if we continue to expect approval all the time at every point of our lives then comes the nightmare.Here, the self confidence steps in. And the more we can cope with life alone, the more brave we might be...The more we believe in ourselves, the more we can get succeed.